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When your parents disapprove of your international relationship

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If your parents are against your international relationship, you need to know why they are against it. If they are against it because of their personality, then it is fine. However, if they are against your relationship just because they are out of your race or foreigners, then I think you shouldn't care about them too much. Your life is your life. Your marriage is your marriage. You live your life, and you and your spouse work your marriage. No one does it for you. You need to know if your girlfriend/boyfriend make you happy, that is all that matters. One thing that you need to remember is you shouldn't date him/her just because you want to be rebellious to your parents. You might feel that you are Romeo or Juliet since they are against you. You might think that that is more fun and exciting because they are against it so it must be forbidden love and more thrilling. However, you need to know that when parents are against your love, there must be reasonable reasons. So, you ne...

What Korean people do when they are on a date

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Obviously, when Korean people go out on a date, they do the same things as other people such as going to a coffee shop, eating at a restaurant, going to the movies, going to a sport event, etc. However, there are some places where Korean people like to go when they are hanging out with their friends or dating. 1. 노래방( Noraebang) Karaoke Karaoke is a place where you can sing with your friends. Korean people love to sing. Even couples go to noraebang to sing together. 2. Coffee shop As you can see, coffee shops are partitioned. They want to have private tables for them, so lots of coffee shops which are partitioned are popular among couples.  It is like you have your own private space to drink coffee (or make out?). 3. DVD room This is a place where you can watch movies in a very small theater. When you go inside, you choose what movie you want to watch and then watch it in a room. Since DVD rooms can be used as hotels (some people go there to make out and more!), minors can not...

The Special 14th Days in Korea

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South Korea has very many special days. They are not really national holidays or anything like that. People just think that those special days are quite fun to celebrate. All of a sudden, people started to say November 11th is Pepero day and started to celebrate it. Pepero is a Korean chocolate stick cookie which looks like 1. This popular snack, pepero's company probably made November 11th as Pepero day so that they can raise their sales. Pepero day has become extremely popular, and many friends and lovers give pepero to each other. Korean people love to celebrate any special days. I will go through all of special days which are popular among young people. The14th day of each month is a special day. January 14th – Diary Day Couples are meant to give each other a diary or year planner in which they mark their plans, anniversaries, birthdays and other important dates.  February 14th – Valentine’s Day In contrast to Western society, today is traditionally when women give chocolates t...

How my Korean parents accepted my black boyfriend

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My parents were never conservative people. They were quite open-minded. Especially, my mom had been to many different countries, so she had met many different people from different cultures. However, it must have been really hard for my parents to accept James as my boyfriend. There were many different reasons, but one of them was the language. My mom always dreamed that she and her son-in-law can be good friends and she can treat him as her son since she doesn't have a son. Being able to communicate with each other was quite important for my mom when it comes to a son-in-law. My mom knew that I don't date someone I would not think about marrying, so she must have not liked the fact that James couldn't speak good Korean and she couldn't speak good English. Things were not easy. I uploaded a video on youtube one day for a video response to a video asking if all asians parents are quite against international relationships. The girl who uploaded the video deleted it after ...

Dating tips when you are dating a Korean girl

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First of all, I am telling you that this tips and advice is a totally personal opinion of mine. Some might think differently, but since I was born and raised in Korea, I can say I am pretty much very Korean. lol. Let me give you some tips that you need to know when you are dating a Korean girl or when you want to make your Korean girlfriend happy. 1. Korean girls like publicity. If you show your affection in public, she will seem shy, but she will like it. That is why Korean men are always very stressed about how they can make the woman happy by organizing some special party or proposal usually in public (or with bunch of friends). 2. Koreans like couple stuff. Korean couples like to match together. They have couple shirts, couple rings, couple shoes, couple cellphones, couple cellphone charms, couple bags, even couple swimsuits!! You might need to get prepared to do these things when you have a Korean boyfriend or girlfriend. 3. Korean girls are quite passive in relationships. They li...

Korean people love 'Events.'

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이벤트(Ibenteu) is basically 'Event' in Konglish. In a dictionary, the word 'event' means a.  Something that takes place; an occurrence. b.  A significant occurrence or happening. c.  A social gathering or activity. So, it is just any occurrence in English. But, in Konglish, we use 이벤트 as a very special occurrence or some special thing that you do for somebody. If a store holds 이벤트 an event, that means they might have some major sale for customers or bring some celebrities to the store so more customers can come to the store. Black Friday, Black Saturday, Cyber Monday are considered 이벤트 in Korea. This is an 이벤트 of 'Study abroad agency.' They are saying they will give out some scholarship since they just opened a website about going to Japan. Dunkin Donuts is doing some 이벤트 on Valentines day. If they buy something for their Valentines, they might win some prizes! The loan company is doing some 이벤트 saying they will loan some money without interest for 7 days. You can...